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We are All Immigrants on Thanksgiving

11/22/2016

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I am part third-generation Irish, part second-generation Czech-Wendish, part second-generation Russian Ashkenazim Jew and there is some German, French and Iberian mixed in there for good measure.  In short, I am an American.  And, like the majority of us, we are immigrants to this country: each generation leaving economic or political crisis behind to seek a life in a land of promise.  My grandfather, Maurice Fritz was born in London in 1903.  His family left Russian in the late 1800's and came to America a few years after he was born to start businesses in Philadelphia.  My grandfather, from what I'm told, started an ice cream business which he lost from gambling with the local priests at the race track.  

​Even in the 1920's my family was a bit unconventional.  Maurice, a betting  man and devout atheist until his death bed, married my Irish-Catholic grandmother, Mary Fisher Burke when he was 28 and she was 38.  She had my uncle at 39 and my father at age 41.  They were married in the under-croft of the Catholic church since inter-faith weddings were and are still not allowed in the sanctuary. 
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My father was the victim of frequent beatings and harassment by his classmates because his last name was Fritz during World War II. 
Raising two boys is intense.  My father and uncle would have probably been diagnosed with ADHD. My grandfather too for that matter. My grandmother had made a career bookkeeping and because of their wealth at the time, her age and determination to keep working they sent both of the boys to private boarding schools.  The first one was St. Andrews in Delaware then onto Admiral Farragut's Academy and Haverford.  My father hated boarding school especially in the 1940's.
We don't really know how our last name became the German sounding name Fritz.  It's rumored that it was shortened in Russia from a more Jewish sounding name in order to 'fit' better into the business community.  What many don't realize is that in addition to Japanese Americans, Germans along with some Italians were also interred  during the WWII years of 1942 to 1948.  According to the National Archives 
"By the end of the war, over 31,000 [total numbers including majority of Americans of Japanese descent] suspected enemy aliens and their families, including a few Jewish refugees from Nazi Germany, had been interned at Immigration and Naturalization Services (INS) internment camps and military facilities throughout the United States."
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As I sit at the Thanksgiving table this week, I reflect on the history of this country and try to push away the fear that is mounting about a new version of our country's darkest moments being given new power.  But I also believe that in this country and across the world that there are more who are doing good.

Our familial history lessons are critical to solving the issues we face today.  We should not shy away from them.  Our histories contain stories  of one grandfather's gambling, womanizing and drinking problems and the other owning his own mechanics garage.  Talk about the daughter who had to drop out of school at 12 years old to take care of her brothers and father and of your dad given his first cigarette at age 4 by his uncle.  Talk about drinking tea with milk and sugar and sleeping on the davenport because you're the littlest. Talk about being schooled in the virtues of organized labor by your elder who was a bigot and your 80 something life-long democrat of a mother who still spells out the word black. Talk about waiting in butter lines and recycling rubber for the war effort and drinking concentrated orange juice from a Hellman's jar.  Talk about four generations going to the Jersey Shore and the first girl in the family to receive an advanced degree.

As we sit down this year, let's not talk about politics, but open our Thanksgiving dinner with the question, "Where does our family come from?"
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Bess Walkden
11/24/2016 05:29:53 am

Very fascinating genealogy!!! Your posting comes at a very appropriate time as I am reading the biology of Harry Truman by David McCulloughand enjoying it thoroughly!!! I bought the book at a library book sale and when I tried reading it in bed I gave up and am now reading it on my mini IPad. This is working perfectly!!!
Have a nice Thanksgiving. We will be having our dinner at home, a quite holiday!!!

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David Aiken
12/11/2016 09:08:20 pm

So much I didn't know about you. I like & appreciate the substance of your missive & hope you are thriving personally & professionally.

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